There’s no exact meaning from the words of “a better person”. Everyone actually has the right to be whoever they want to be and do whatever they want to do. However, not all people have the bold limitation when they should act like that and when they should respect others.
Becoming a better person is not the same as just be yourself. For some people, they even haven’t found they truly self. But, being a better person will make you have a different point of view about yourself and acceptance. And these are steps for you on how to become a better person.
Be Proud of Your Talent
Your talent is the first way on how to become a better person. You should be proud of your talent, even though you think it’s useless. Even though you already have it, a great talent will be a waste if you don’t improve it properly. Find ways as the channels to improve your talent, such as getting involved in related events, joining communities that support your talent, or even showing your talent to other people. With those ways, people will recognize you and you’ll be challenged every day. Some people think passion is not always related to your talent. If you think you can make your passion as your talent and you’re enjoying doing it, then improve it.
Don’t act like you know everything because you don’t. Go read some books, find something that interests you, meet new people, widen your network, find role models to motivate you, and learn something from your experience. One of the best sources of learning is by having mistakes. Even though it seems to be difficult to handle, especially if you just experienced it, mistakes will lead you to a new chance.
Care with Your Environment
Just do something that you think will make the world a better place to live in. You don’t have to do something big, it’s because you can start something from your nearest environment. You can do the recycle by yourself, consume local products to support local farmers, or buy organic products that are good for your health.
People say that there’s a reason why you have two ears and one mouth. The world is already filled with amazing speakers, but there are only a few people who are able to listen carefully. Moreover, some people actually don’t need many pieces of advice – they just need to listen. If you think you’re not a good listener, always remember that there’s a rule for every conversation: Don’t cut someone’s sentences. As the result, waiting for other people to finish their sentences force you to keep listening to them.
What you hate about yourself can be a reason for other people to love you. Sometimes it’s hard for you to love yourself, especially if people around you keep telling you about your mistakes and flaws. What you can do is learning to love yourself; be positive about yourself. Don’t fill your mind with negative things about you because no one can help you but yourself. Don’t keep blaming yourself because you can’t move on with it. In order to walk towards the present, and the future, you should learn something from your past instead of bringing it to your life now.
Doing Something That Makes You Happy
People have a different meaning of happiness. But sometimes, they forget to make themselves happy. Every day, you should allocate your time (at least 10 minutes) for doing something that can make you happy. If you can’t do this, you can make your weekends on your happiness days. Remember that your life is too short for not doing something that can make you happy, especially if your friends are happy, but not you. And you should ask yourself; are you happy now?
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