Keeping secret in a relationship is commonly done by those who are still a teenager. They try hard to hide this relationship because of some reasons. They may feel ashamed or even afraid when their parents know this relationship. The secret relationship is also known as the back street. The couple does not want to exhibit this relationship to others. They try to love each other silently.
The backstreet relationship is decided because they have recognized that both of them are too young for making a relationship. This is just a perception that has been kept by teenagers since the ice age. However, you have to know that keeping a secret has good technique. You must be a good actor who must be good in hiding and showing any such of expressions. Through this article, we are going to share some tips for those who want to keep secret in this relationship without your parents knowing.
Act like there is nothing happened!
Firstly, you have to deal with something called role play. In order to keep secret about your relationship, you have to become a good actor at home. We are sure that you must be happy and lovely when you have found a girl for your special friend.
These happy and lovely feelings cannot be shown off too much. Your parent must be suspicious when they know you looked so happy. You just need to be happy like a common person. You are not allowed to smile lonely without any person around you. Your parent will easily read your smile easily. They will assume that you are still thinking and recalling the beautiful moment. The role play is not only about happy and lovely feelings. Moreover, you have to maintain yourself with a sad expression.
When you get conflict in this relationship, you cannot explode your emotion at home. You are not allowed to be sad and angry. Your parent will be suspicious about that. They will ask you about the reason why you are so sad and looked angry.
In a high-tempered condition, you must be difficult to get another reason to hide your relationship conflict. When being together with your parent, you cannot talk too much about her. Actually, you can still talk about friends in a common way, and not for personal discussion.
Be aware of your cellular phone
Communication is very important in this relationship. Without making communication, there will be a gap between you and your lover. The easiest access to communicate is a cellular phone. You can give a romantic call and send a loveable message to your phone. However, your cellular phone will be also crucial in this relationship. Your parent will spot this relationship easily after knowing your communication via cellular phone.
In order to hide this relationship, you can start by setting your cellular phone in silent mode. In this silent mode, your cellular phone will not be ringing even though there is a call or message.
Besides setting in a silent mode, you have to concern about the operating time. You cannot hold and focus on your phone for every second. This high intensity will rise up your parent’s suspicion. You can put this cellular phone in your pocket. This is better for you to hold it when there is call or message.
When your phone is ringing in gathering time with your family, you don’t need to be panic and nervous. You can hang up that call in that place and talk ordinary like a relation between friend and friend. If the communication takes longer time, you can slowly go to another place. Your parent will realize that you want to go silent place that is far from TV sound. Those are some tips for keeping secret in a relationship.
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